Gifts vs. Giving

I love gifts. But those that mean the most are heartfelt presents: the ones that have specific intent or special symbolism. I don’t appreciate gifts based on the amount of money spent on them. Actually, getting a bargain on a present makes it extra special to me. And I will flip if I know the present was hand made. I LOVE presents crafted by the person who gives them to me.

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Success Through Failure?

It was the end of a Mock Trial that I completed in my Sophomore year of high school. Both teams were waiting breathlessly for the judge to give the verdict and closing remarks. As defense attorney, I was extremely nervous, considering that my client, one of my close friends, was charged with murdering her husband. I recognized that it was a close battle, understood that we had made some major mistakes, but held on to the tiny chance I knew we had. Then the moment came. The verdict was spoken. Continue reading Success Through Failure?

Simple Ways to Heal the World

It doesn’t take much to make the world a better place.

Sometimes the obstructions that seem to hold us back from making a difference are all in our own head. In fact, the conscious decision to make a positive impact is enough to stop the chain of negativity that surrounds us and beautify the world around us. Continue reading Simple Ways to Heal the World

Recalled to Life? A Commentary on A Tale of Two Cities

What is life? Scientists define the four characteristics of life as the ability to reproduce, the presence of DNA, the strength to extract/ convert energy into a useful substance, and the capacity to sense and respond to changes in surroundings. Merriam-Webster maintains that life is”the sequence of physical and mental experiences that make up the existence of an individual”. Neither of these definitions encompass the full meaning of life when referring to the human being, a spiritual creature. Life is not simply physical existence. In fact, no human answer can fully define the word. Philosophers, scientists, all of humanity have tried in vain for years to put “life” in a box; to make it a tangible, understandable substance. Continue reading Recalled to Life? A Commentary on A Tale of Two Cities

Learning By Teaching: The Cycle of Education

Being raised in a large family, I am accustomed to the constant fuel of creativity, the continual exchange of new ideas. There is always a new project to compete in. The next breakthrough research is always just around the corner. The learning process never stops.

There is a key concept that naturally comes to life in a family of vast age differences: the best way to ingrain any piece of knowledge into your head is to pass on that information to another individual.

For hundreds of years, this was an expected cycle of learning. One learnt the information, reviewed it, formed his opinion of it, debated it, and taught another what he knew. (Socratic dialogue, anybody?)

It has only been in recent years that we have lost the concept of the cycle of learning. Teaching is reserved only for those who are so-called “experts” in a field. Everyone else keeps quiet and lets the experts do their thing, successfully cutting off the life of education by smothering conversation.

How would humanity change if each individual recognized the benefits of using the knowledge he has, no matter how small, to impact other people?

What if you sat down and wrote a short essay on every new concept you gained? Or if you found one person every day to question about an idea you have about the world? What if the cycle of learning could be refueled by those who are passionate about true education?

I challenge you: Teach someone something today. Build relationships. Pass on information. Create dialogue and healthy conversation. Encourage questions. Explore. Create. And watch the world begin to flourish around you. Life can only be complete when education flows through its intended cycle.

 

 

What I Learned: Photography

As a part-time job in my junior year of high school, I worked for a local photography business. My job was mainly centered around the bustle of school portraits.

We would wake up at 4:30 AM  just to be at a school by 6:00 to set up. By 6:30 we would be full steam ahead shooting portraits of teachers and staff. Continue reading What I Learned: Photography

Chocolate Mini Cheesecakes

On the first day of Christmas… the baking begins!

You always look at cheesecake as a guilty pleasure, I know. What if I told you there is a delicious, healthy alternative that you can eat with no regrets?

The main key to making these cheesecakes is lots of eggs. I love baking with eggs! They make everything so fluffy and light. Adding plenty of eggs is a key to creating a healthy, delicious alternative to a common treat.

The other secret to this recipe is Greek Yogurt. It adds a flavor and smoothness of texture..

Quick, easy…. tada! Enjoy a sweet healthy Christmas treat! Continue reading Chocolate Mini Cheesecakes

What I Learned: Dog Breeding

Though there is a world of information to be discovered between the pages of a book, I hold to the belief that the greatest education consists of hands-on learning. This conviction stems from my personal experience of managing a small business. In fact, if I had to trade my entire high school education for the hands-on work I did building a business,  I would make the switch in a heart beat.

I jumped into the dog raising industry in 2012 rather suddenly when my aunt needed help setting up a small business of her own. My first paid job, at $5/ hour, consisted of getting up at 6AM in the morning to care for 10 small and large breed dogs that were all adjusting to a new home. Because of my fondness for the canine species, I fell in love with the job.

Enter the tragic experience of my dad passing away unexpectedly when I was 13 years old. As the oldest child in a large family, I felt the weight of necessity. With the help of some friends to whom I will forever be grateful, I embarked on my own journey raising Golden Retrievers.

At the time, I was in such emotional pain that I could hardly focus on traditional school work.  (I still have 9th grade textbooks that I did not completely finish.) But I was pouring myself into tangible experience that taught me more than any book could have. Through hands- on experience and commitment to something outside my grief, my heart began to heal. But without realizing it, I was also gaining by default skills that many only realize when they become CEO of a company.

The greatest skill developed in me through my dog raising was consistency. No matter how I felt, no matter what day it was, the dogs needed food, water, grooming, and personal attention. And when there were 10-20 puppies that also needed constant attention, the stakes got higher. I spent an average of 4 hours a day with the dogs. Consistency is a skill that can only be learned by experience; I am forever grateful that I was introduced to a job that forced me to birth steadiness.

Secondly, I got a start in both sales and marketing without realizing it. (Learning to take high- quality photos of a squirming puppy that looked good on a website was an accomplishment in itself.) I also learned how to watch  patterns in customers, find common ground with potential leads, and craft my selling points for each puppy based on the customers’ individual needs. I bargained concerning price drops, and learned advertising techniques that targeted my choice audiences. No, I didn’t learn marketing lingo. But, more importantly, I built the foundation of experience that set me up to refine my marketing ability later on in life.

Finally, I gathered more management skills in my years of dog breeding than anything else could have taught me. Navigating meetings, creating payment plans, finalizing paperwork, keeping track of expenses, and keeping up with emails and phone calls gave me exposure to the reality of adult work. I always will be grateful for the administrative ability that day-to-day coordination of both expected and unexpected tasks built into me.

 

I cannot stress enough the importance of entrepreneurship from a young age.  Not only did I love my job, I built a strong base of three top skills that are in high demand in today’s professional world. “Teach a man to fish…”