If you’re young and have people over 45 in your life, this is for you…
You may roll your eyes because they can’t do anything with modern technology.
You may think some of their ideas are strange and maybe even fanatical.
Maybe their opinions are outdated. Maybe they’re not progressive enough for you. Maybe you think they don’t understand how you feel.
But you should listen.
Here’s the thing: experience is one of the greatest teachers in the world. If you’re under 25 you have far less than most people over 45.
Experience births wisdom. Experience gives you common sense. Experience brings a strength and tenacity to your life that nothing else can.
I’m not saying you swallow everything they have to say, or that you should roll over every time they tell you to do something.
I’m just asking you to listen.
I have serious gaps in my thinking at 21 (everyone does- it’s part of being young!) Listening to people with the advantage of age has helped me broaden my horizons and learn what really matters.
Dismissing what they have to say does me no good. Pondering their ideas (even if I completely disagree with them) has only been good for me.
Seriously, just listen.
P.S. I understand that not every person over 45 is worth listening to in this aspect. If that’s the case for you, start actively looking for people older than you who can be active voices in your life. It’s one of the best investments you’ll make.